Everyone tells their truth.
Nobody sees anyone else's.
The report translates what your
family actually needs.
That's the point.
Your family has three versions of the truth. None of them are wrong.
The daughter in Florida sees one family. The son in Boston sees a completely different one. The sibling who handles everything sees a third version entirely.
None of them are lying. They're all just seeing the same family through their own lens — their own history, their own fear, their own love or guilt.
And nobody has ever put those versions side by side — until now.
The truth has three sides.
Every sibling answers the same 42 questions — privately, on their own time, without anyone seeing what anyone else wrote. The report shows where the family aligns and where it doesn't.
Your truth
What you believe about your family's situation. Your assumptions. Your fears. Your understanding of what mom and dad actually want. Answered honestly — because nobody else will see it.
Their truth
What your siblings believe. Their version of the same family. Often completely different from yours — not because anyone is wrong, but because nobody has ever compared notes.
What the report translates
Where all of you agree. Where you don't. What those gaps mean for your family. And exactly what to do about each one — in plain language, not legal language.
"The hardest family conversations don't get easier with time.
They get easier with a place to start."
Simple. Private. Resolved.
One person starts it. Every sibling participates on their own time. The report arrives instantly.
One person starts
The organizer pays and receives a unique Family ID. They enter basic information about their family and invite siblings by email — however many there are.
Each sibling gets a private link
Every sibling receives their own unique link. Their answers go directly to the system — nobody else sees what they wrote. Spouses are not included by design.
42 honest questions
Across five areas of family readiness. The questions feel like a real conversation — not a legal deposition. Most people finish in about 20 minutes.
Your report arrives
The Family Readiness Report delivers to the organizer. Where the family is strong. Where the gaps are. What to do next. In plain language your family can actually use.
Nobody sees anyone else's answers. Ever.
That's what makes the report work. Safety is what unlocks honesty. And honesty is the only thing that makes the report useful.
Your answers are never shared. Never stored. Never seen.
The second a sibling thinks their answers might be seen — they self-censor. They soften. They protect. You lose the truth entirely.
Every sibling needs to know before they answer a single question that their responses are completely private. That's not just a feature — it's the foundation the whole report is built on.
The Paxias Privacy Promise
- —No sibling ever sees another's answers
- —The organizer does not see individual responses
- —The report speaks in patterns — never individual attribution
- —Individual answers are permanently deleted after report generation
- —Nothing stored, sold, or shared with anyone
42 questions across five areas of family readiness.
Not legal questions. Not financial questions. Human questions — about what your family knows, agrees on, assumes, and disagrees about.
The Conversations
Have the important things actually been said out loud? Does everyone know what mom and dad actually want?
The Documents
Not legal advice — just awareness. Does the family know what exists, where it is, and who has access?
The Roles
Who does what when something happens? Is that clear to everyone — or just assumed by one person?
The Relationships
Where are the fault lines? Which relationships are strong, which are strained, where is the silence?
The Plan
Does any shared understanding exist — or is everyone operating on completely different assumptions?
"Most families have never seen themselves this clearly. That's the point."
— Craig Singer, Founder, Paxias
One flat fee. Every sibling included. No surprises.
One adult child pays and invites however many siblings need to participate. Two, five, nine — the price doesn't change. Everyone gets their own private link. One family gets one report.
- ✓42 questions across 5 areas of family readiness
- ✓Private unique link for every sibling
- ✓No sibling sees another's answers — ever
- ✓Spouses excluded by design
- ✓AI-powered report built on Craig's framework
- ✓Specific recommendations for your family's gaps
- ✓Individual answers permanently deleted after report
The organizer pays. Siblings participate at no cost.
One family. One report. One flat fee.
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